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I tend to be a Gentleman and maintain a traditional/Vanilla demeanor in many aspects of my life, and yet I also have on a regular basis strong cravings and desires to serve a Femdomme and possibly at her bidding her friends to do as they wish.� Sometimes my eyes can be bigger than my stomach. So it is probably accurate to say that I may have over stated myself a little bit in my descriptions and fantasies below. Not due to any guile but more perhaps to my current eagerness to get involved into BDSM again. Kind of like a boy looking in the window of a toyshop during Christmas season; I feel I want it all. So in my descriptions and answers below I may well desire to bite off more than I can chew etc. As I said, it is accurate, but I realistically may in my best interest want to take things one step at a time and at a bit slower pace in progressing than is indicated below.

A quick note on my posted photos

I am an artist in regular life and I do keep my vanilla and BDSM worlds separate; so I chose to stylize my photos to give a quick sampling of my artwork and to obscure any easy recognition of myself from any possible coincidental viewing by anyone I might know within the vanilla world. Also, although the photos are of me in body and face I have not through the years documented my own BDSM sessions and activities in photos at all. I am open to doing that now within the Femdomme Society community. So eventually I will have these new photos to post documenting my involvements with the Ladies of the Court. So, the best I could do was mimic some of the activities I have been through and some of the fantasies I'd like yet to experience by finding similar occurrences in various photos on the web; and then photo-shopping my self into them. Thus these are pictures of my self in circumstances that I actually did do for some and of others that are of my self in fantasies I have yet to do. There is nothing here that is inaccurate or any attempt to deceive anyone via these photos. This solution was the only way right now for me to be able to post photos relevant to my past experiences and current aspirations in the BDSM world plus retain a certain anonymity. For now this seems the best solution until I am privileged hopefully later this year to have some photo opportunities with some of the Ladies of the Court. Also, for those familiar with Collages, Andy Warhol's variations of different logos, emblems, popular photos and photos of Pop icons, as well as, the tradition in music of Theme & variations you already know that variations upon whatever source material used has been a long and non-problematic tradition for centuries within the Fine Arts. There need be no worries concerning my photos here either. Creating Variations based upon whatever source material used is a centuries old tradition and well respected legally and internationally in both the pictorial Arts and Music and serious Artists/Composers through out the centuries have often used some theme source material and based upon it make variations out of it.

Lastly, as stated I do keep my vanilla and BDSM worlds separate and although I do not disclose to my Vanilla relations about my BDSM life; there is one aspect in my vanilla world that I refrain from discussing initially within the BDSM world too. Again there is no guile here, I simply refrain from discussing this particular matter in the BDSM world except with people with in the BDSM world I have learned to trust and have developed at least the real beginnings of some kind of friendship. It is nothing of great import really and nothing dangerous or in anyway unethical etc. Most people have one or two things that they tend to be touchy about and keep private except among real friends is all. Everything below is accurate and I hope will be useful to the Ladies of the Court.

A Quick Note on my Vanilla life

I decided to include a summery here of my vanilla life Profile too. The reason being is that if one only has the BDSM information below without the mutually accurate Vanilla Singles Profile information then one will have a lopsided or unbalanced perspective and possibly view on myself concerning my feelings regarding women and romance etc. Both profiles are accurate and are compatible yet quite different in content emphasis. It does not necessarily make me a switch for I have little inclination for dominating female partners. This way, hopefully any of the Ladies reading this information below can glean a much more accurate well-rounded perspective of my total sexuality and person.

In addition, Since I have gone without any real Femdomme interactions for a number of years now, I am these days feeling a bit more pent up with desires and fantasies to be in servitude and bondage again. So I may come off a bit more extreme in my Profile descriptions then when I am in an on going Femdomme relationship. Everything here is accurate; but I hope no one gets the mistaken impression that I am very extreme in disposition or personality in all this. I am basically a fairly stable and relaxed kind of guy, except for my current situation of these pent up feelings� & pressures not having any real release.� So, because of my going now for so long without any direct BDSM participation and not collared yet etc. I may come off a little bit overboard in my BDSM profile. As I said already in life and BDSM play I am basically and usually a fairly stable and relaxed kind of guy.

Quick word on my desire for Forced Feminization and Forced Homosexuality

I am a strait male heterosexual in case after reading all this you are wondering about that. �The wearing satins of silk materials is arousing to me and such materials today are mostly found in women's Lingerie This in itself that does not necessarily make me un-masculine for its my common sense guess that ancient Chinese Male Nobles probably dressed in various silks and such materials too. These probably denoted both wealth and position. Of course Roman soldiers dressed in skirts and there is always the Scottish kilts.

Although Forced Feminization and Forced homosexuality of me for a FemDommes pleasure is a really big turn on for me; It is because of my being forced into this to please my FemDomme that mostly makes it such big a turn on. In Forced homosexuality She is in complete control of me since I am following her commands in doing what pleases her rather than my own innate inclinations. It is her being in such utter control of myself to the extant that I willingly follow her every instruction in an occasion of doing homosexual activity with another male that really turns me on. It exemplifies my utter inner and outward surrender to do her will to please her and for her amusement and pleasure. In my doing this it is for her pleasure or mere amusement gained at my expense and my humiliation and it is that which is intensely arousing for me.� Her finding amusement and pleasure in my humiliation is the big turn on for me.

In addition, although I do not have an inner desire to become female or anything like that; I really do find myself highly aroused by myself being Forced into Feminization because of my inclination for humiliation at the hands of my FemDomme. Still I do have some inner inclination to be treated and instructed into Feminization that is gratifying within myself and I do have desires to be so treated and want such treatment too. However, even so, the Feminization of myself by my Femdomme is still primarily my surrendering to her will and command to please, amuse and bring her pleasure in my humiliation.� Within the context of a Femdomme commanding me to do a number of various acts and/or activity that are listed below for pleasing her (as you read on through this profile); I find my pleasure in these acts in how they amuse, please and bring pleasure to my Femdomme rather than merely to myself.� In disregarding utterly any of my own innate inclinations in these areas in order to better please my Femdomme I am surrendering my will to hers and find great arousal and sexual pleasure in my willingly being used by her against my own natural sexual/ gender bias and consequently finding in this humiliation a kind of sexual satisfaction simply in making myself obeying her will for her sake and follow her commands in this for her pleasure.

So normally I am not inclined to transvestitism or homosexual activity. Yet within the context of a FemDomme session this is no longer true and I can be played with in these ways as well as in other activities/acts outside or my normal inclinations for in such a context under my Femdomme and in her commanding me to do these things then these forced activities can become incredibly and intensely arousing for me. I find it intensely arousing for me to do various acts and activities for my Femdomme that increase my abasement and deepen my humiliation to greater amuse and please my FemDomme.

(There are of course ethical lines I will not cross etc. Read Below)

Quick Vanilla View Description

Here is a little general Vanilla information about myself.

Clean, honest, down-to-earth, good sense of humor, kind, highly ethical, intelligent, creative, totally for real, cultured, fair, well educated. I like coffee and teas. I hold a BA from a Fine College and studied some in Europe and some postgraduate studies too. I like cats and dogs.

I have been educated in a number of interesting areas including:

The Fine Arts - Website design - Psychology - Literature - Poetry - Religious (East & West) - General Humanities - Musical Composition.

I have written many essays on various subjects and several books of poetry with some published in local journals. One of my strong talents is �clarification� in using my reasoning and analytical abilities. With a problem or issue well-clarified solutions tend to be obvious. I�ve composed over 800 classical musical compositions including string quartets and piano trios. I like to listen to Delilah on LITE FM as well as, Christian Rock on KTIS and serious Jazz, Rock & Roll oldies, avant guard, electronic music, and music of other cultures including India and Japan.

For a vacation I like to go camping out on the river or at Lakes for a week or longer. I like a peaceful life generally, but can get very lively on occasion, and haven�t forgotten how to dance. I like sunsets, and often get up before dawn. I like romantic dinners. I smoke, but am drug free and only drink a very little bit on special holidays. I have recently lost over a hundred pounds and I am currently using nutrition to revitalize my health quite successfully. I like caf�s over bars. I tend to dress casual, but sometimes like a suit and tie.

Mostly I�m a regular, intelligent, kind, and cultured gentleman; both highly ethical and sometimes shy with a lot of the boy scout still alive within me.

I want to develop several Friendships now & eventually couple with someone special in a long-term relationship and companionship.

I am looking for a relationship that is vital, loving, mutually respectful, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. I hope to eventually find one special woman that desires a mutually satisfying relationship with each of us as equal partners and become life long companions. In the mean time, I am open to meeting and getting to know new female friends who also desire to make a new friend.

The woman I eventually develop a long-term relationship will have a number of things to look forward to: Waking up together in the morning and talking together over breakfast. Late night cuddling by the fire. Someone to take on a camping trip and fishing on the banks of a lazy riverbank or lake. Downhill snow skiing trips. A friend to have coffee with and conversations at the local caf� and so much more.

I am looking for new female friends with one possibly developing into a long-term relationship eventually, a potential mate to share the remainder of our lives together. Physically, I desire to become involved with woman who is discrete, yet sexually uninhibited, creative and flexible lovemaking. Experienced or willing to explore and experiment. I�d like to go to the park together or by the lake, and have a picnic together now and then. To do whatever fun activities we can come up with to do together. I�d like to watch films together. I have an extensive video/DVD collection of excellent films of all types. Plus have intimate and honest talks late in the night. I want to be her confidant and her mine.

In short, a Woman who wants it all, to have her cake and eat it to. I like to develop loyal and fair friendships; I'm not too interested or thrilled by mere fair-weather friends. If you are for real and would like to get to know me better over a cup of coffee, Please contact me. Lastly, it may seem that I ask a lot, yet I do give as much or even more.

About me

I think about ALT lifestyle:
Often through the week.

Desired BDSM Role:
Submissive, Butler, Maid, Slave, Toy, Servant, Passed Around, Pet (dog), Domestic, Furniture, Object, Toilet

Level of Experience:
Quite a bit of experimenting on My own at home solo; a long while ago used phone sex lines; Have made 3 Femdomme friends & 1 Pro Femdomme Experience in the past; Some direct, real participatory experience with them, but my sessions /experience has been scattered & infrequent through the years.

Dress Regular Life:
Mostly Casual, though I like to dress up now and then too.

Dress BDSM Life:
Collared & naked; In bondage, chastity device, cock rings, and Cross-dressed. In any Lingerie: Panties, Thongs, G-Strings, Garter Belts, Leg Garters, Teddies, Slip, Satin, Lace, Corsets, Bustiers, Sheer Gowns or however the Femdomme and/or her friends wish to have me dressed to amuse themselves.

Socializing:
Well, I do not 'Fake' it till I make it. Seldom if ever 'fake' much of anything. I am OK when dealing with a lot of people on a regular basis if the duration of such occurrences is not overly long. I tend to tire and after such social gatherings need to rest up a bit. I can be gregarious and charming; yet I like my private time even if I do have more of that these days than I wish. I can be introspective and reflective. I love one-on-one conversations with a friend or two on a multitude of subjects and I like discussing and speculating on most aspects of life, the universe and everything. Surprisingly, after saying all this it is probably true that I am really more often an introvert than an extrovert. I can and I am a bit of a loner, hermit and tend to be more an observer in social gatherings.

Safe Sex:�
Yes, STD's are a real concern for me. I am Clean and will not be involved intimately with someone who is not.� I have no problem with making friends with people who do have some kind of STD but there is a line here that I will not cross with them and they must respect that.

Regular World Demeanor:
In the regular world my outward attitude, behavior & manner toward others is fairly consistent. Most of the time my demeanor and outward behavior with others is governed in combinations of various attributes of being:� fair, honest, trustworthy, loyal, helpful, courteous, kind, cheerful, ethical, intelligent, creative, cultured, educated, down-to-earth, or my somewhat quirky humor. These attributes among similar ones form my basic day-to-day outward demeanor manifest in my outward behavior & manner in the regular world.

BDSM World Demeanor:
In the BDSM world my innate submissive bias is to serve & obey women. Keeping my eyes downcast in their presence, Following their instructions, asking their permission, following their commands and being treated as their lowly inferior. Pleasing Fem Dommes pleasures me. I have an inner sexually based craving that is only fully fulfilled in my servitude, abasement and/or humiliation under Femdommes. This inner need does manifest in an appropriate demeanor of outward behavior & manner with Fem Dommes and shapes my attitude of being their inferior, of wanting servitude under them & being their slave.

Physical Stuff

How would you describe your body, style, and appearance?

Facial Hair:
Dirty blond with trimmed beard
Body Hair:
I have all my body hair now; but would like being intimately shaved and anywhere else too except the top of my head and the beard.
Body Decorations: �None
Male Endowment: �Average
Circumcised:� ��Yes

What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the day?
Casual, Sweats Jeans, Classy, Urban, Artist Type, Sport-coat over T-Shirt, Colored Gym Shorts, Hawaiian shirts

What is your favorite clothing style(s) during the night?
Casual or Classy Colored Gym Shorts or Sweats at Home; In Public: Urban, Artist Type, Sport-coat over T-Shirt, Sweats, Jeans

My main negative now is being overweight. I am on a weight loss program now that is working nicely for me. Now I'm Ample; but I'm working to get to my ideal weight by Spring/summer 2009. So, think of me as a good, fairly short-term investment with a good return as far as having an attractive body goes. I have already lost 70 lb. in 2008 so I am already a proven sound investment of your time as far as my getting into good physical shape for you. My general appearance is clean and Sharp casual or Island casual or Urban Casual; plus I like to wear a sports coat and even a tie sometimes.

Physical Positives are that my muscles are getting really hardened with doing weights; plus on a regular basis doing 6 to 12 miles on a treadmill means my legs are definitely looking good. A Beard looks very good on me at my current age (so it stays). Twinkle in my eye at times.� No major or obvious blemishes, physical handicaps or flaws. I may not be Brad Pitt but look good for my age.

Describe how you express your BDSM on a day-to-day basis.
Generally nil these days; However, I do dress up in Alt style when I have a submissive craving building up within without any Femme Domme for relief and in the privacy of my home.

How do you dress up for special occasions?
In public for special occasions I will dress in a nice suit.

Describe your most attractive feature.
I have a kind face and eyes with a twinkle.

What body part do you first notice when you meet a person?
Face Eyes

What physical feature do you notice when you meet a person?
Face, Slim Physic, Eyes, Hair, Smile, Chest, Butt, Legs

How much does physical appearance matter to you in a partner?
A Lot; though there may be exceptions to this.

How important is physical attraction to you in selecting a partner?
An important consideration.

What do you wear for underwear?
Men�s boxers or briefs on a normal day.� As far as BDSM: I've worn Only my Cock/Balls Tightly bound in a leather belt, panties, Slip, Hose and garter belt, a teddy & thongs. Chastity devices are a fantasy of mine

What do you think about tattoos?
They can be a turn on for me to see on women or simply nice but not always and not on me. I have no tattoos.

What do you think about piercing?
They can be a turn on for me to see on women if not over done but not always and I have little inclination in that direction right now. Though I once wanted to get my ears pierced and might be open to that. Currently I have no piercing.

Do you exercise? How?
I do a daily 8-mile home workout on a treadmill and lift weights.

What is your sexual health status?
All Clean! I have No STDs; I simply do not feel at all comfortable with having a partner with any STDs.

Personality & Outlook on Life

Marriage/Marital Status: Single & Looking
Have Children: No
Want Children: Perhaps
Spiritual/Religion:
Christian/Taoism/Zen/Mysticism

Generally speaking, how daring are you?
For me, fun doesn't include doing any dangerous or extreme activities.

What words best describe your personality?
Friendly, Positive, Compassionate, Prudent, Cautious, Curious, Funny/Humorous, Honest, Intelligent, Loyal, Outgoing, Quiet/Shy, Realist, Sensitive, Trustworthy

What qualities do you look for in a partner?
In Command, Compassionate, Curious, Daring, Funny/Humorous, Honest, Intelligent, Glass half full, Loyal, Outgoing, Quiet/Shy, Realist, Sensitive, Spontaneous, Trustworthy, Wild 'n Crazy

What factors are most important to you when looking for someone?
Looks, Good Character Traits, Spirit, Openness, Personality, Intelligence, The Whole Package, without high maintenance or with a lot of baggage.

What animal best describes your personality?
Dolphin, Friendly Bear

Tell us what things in life are most important to you and why.
Friendships. Starry Night Sky; a Spectacular Sunrise/Sunset; Downhill Snow Skiing; Sailing; Fishing & Camping; Horseback Riding; Ethics; Spirit of Truth; Beauty; Touch; Conversation; Humor; Love; mutual respect and a few other things too. To appreciate all the grandeur and beauty within this Creation/Universe from the tiny to the cosmic as we pass through it in time, as well as, all the beneficial involvement within each others lives together and/or apart in our various mental, emotive and relational interactions as we continue onward in our life-paths. Why? Self-evident.

Work & Living Activities

My Life interests are varied and sometimes run substantially deep. I have been performing/playing the piano almost my entire life, although now I mostly work in my Studio & mostly compose musical & visual compositions and I rarely do any live performance I am a self-educated Webmaster as well as studied in computer programming in College. Currently I am starting up a web business.

What best describes the pace of your life? Manageable, but still a few months away from finishing my To Do Lists. Sometimes swamped in work, but usually a daily routine of morning coffee at a local cafe, work on my websites, do my Workout, evening rest & relax.

How much time does your job take up in your life?
My Job & my To Do Lists take up most of my time right now; however, by early summer 2009 my To Do Lists will be done; and my website building done for my web business and so since the web business only takes an hour a day at most to operate and promote I'll have plenty of spare time on my hands and plan to go fishing and work on my Music & Art from then on.

Describe what you do for a living.
I was working full time in a good Staff position at a Major hospital for years. It was also Union and my benefits were very good too. Eventually, because I do receive a monthly stipend from an old trust fund that if I lived frugally and was prudent I could strike out on my own to set up my own business. Since I was single and had no children; plus being both a composer and Artist a more bohemian life style was not all that unattractive to me I did just that. Currently, I am a Webmaster setting up my own web business and make my own schedule. I've also been funded in setting this up over the past 3 years by a grant. Although I had been working that full time job in the past, I have for some time now been living off my monthly stipend from that old trust fund and it is enough for me to live on and pay my monthly bills as long as I remain frugal and prudent. So, during the past few years I have not been hiring myself out to anyone or working for others. The grant recently ended yet my stipend is still sufficient for me to get by on for now so I am not currently looking for an outside job. I hope that as I begin to promote my web business this Summer 2009 that I will begin to generate an increasing larger income to make my life a bit easier and to build up ample savings for various creature comforts I have been postponing.

How often are you online?
As a webmaster and also for pleasure every day.

What kind of place do you live in?
A very nice Loft with central air, 16 foot high Ceilings with huge beams, Very large Front Bay windows overlooking a very nice Park, and with a great kitchen set up too.

What do you like about where you live?
Everything! (Except they do need some sound proofing in some areas)

What is your current dating situation?
I've been very busy with setting up my new place after my recent move in 2007, and working hard to finish up on setting up my Studio, Office and Web business. Also, with all the work I have been doing to build and finish my suite of websites I simply have had little to no free time for meeting people or dating lately. Now, almost all of this is done and I hope to begin to have plenty of free time again sometime this Spring 2009 to really begin socializing more, making new friends and hopefully start up a dating life again.

What types of relationships have you had in the past? Share your story with us!
A number of rather attractive Girlfriends over the past 30 years; but none lasting long (In months; rather than years).

How can The Femdomme Society help you change your life?
I hope to meet, get to know, and eventually make friends with a number of women and folks in the local BDSM community. I'd like to make friends with some women locally who are interested in these kind of fantasies and perhaps a few of these new friends might explore some of these fantasies with me too (both their fantasies and mine).� I really want to experience frequent & long term real participation as a submissive, plaything, butler, maid, boy slut, servant, domestic, slave, doggie of a Femdomme and maybe passed around or loaned out among her Femdomme friends.

Recreation - Entertainment - Sports - Hobbies

What type of television shows do you enjoy watching?
Arts, Home Improvement, Travel, Documentary, Learning, History, Dramas, Movie Channels, News, Sci-Fi, Court Shows, Talk Shows

What are your favorite television shows?
Judge Judy, The Time Tunnel, Law and Order, NCIS, Bewitched, Smallville, The Twilight Zone, The Outer Limits, Star Trek Voyager, Stargate, To many to list all!

What kind of movies do you enjoy the most?
Action, Comedy, Cops and Robbers, Cult Classics, Documentary, Drama, Fantasy, Horror, Mystery, Sci-Fi, Suspense/Thriller, Westerns

What are your favorite movies?
To many to List all my favorites. I have a large and comprehensive collection. Some past Favorites are: Wings Of Desire, The Lost Room, The Thirteenth Floor, The Keep, Just Visiting (Hollywood re-make of the French film), Thoughtcrimes, The Uninvited (1944), Jack and the Beanstalk (The Real Story), The Mists of Avalon, The Net, Any Steven Segal film, Kate & Leopold, Blast from the Past, 12:01, Groundhog Day, Mary Popins, The Godfather 1, 2 & 3, Blackbeards Ghost, A Lot of Clint Eastwood films, My Name is Nobody, The Hoodlum Saint, I Married a Witch Stars Veronica Lake; 1st Bewitched film), The Good, the Bad & the Ugly, Midway, The Longest Day, 40 First Dates, Frank Capra films,� and the list goes on and on.

What kind of music do you enjoy listening to?
Classical, Early Musics, Folk Music, Jazz/Blues, Classic Rock, New Age, Oldies, Opera, Punk, Reggae, Religious Music, Show Tunes, Modern Classical & Electronic Music, India, Japan

What does listening to music do for you?
It's relaxing, It's inspiring, and It�s how I express myself, Its enjoyable. Additionally, as a Composer I explore all music. Likes and dislikes have nothing to do with my appreciation and understanding of musical craft. I learn to open my mind to swim in unknown musical patterns and begin to recognize new musical sense outside of my current abilities to understand or appreciate. Thus, I continually improve my capabilities to understand any kind of music by habitually exploring new music and music outside of my cultural understanding. This has nothing to do with the latest Pop song or Fad. By listening to musical works or musical traditions outside of my current understanding in musical craft I enter into these unknown fields of un-understood musical patterns and begin to recognize, learn and appreciate them. I discover and begin to recognize sense patterns in these formerly unknown, unfamiliar and bewildering cultural traditions. This musical exploration process is very much analogous to space exploration, or akin to previous explorers in earlier centuries going to places unknown and uncharted. Except, of course, I can do this without leaving my Living room.

What are your favorite musicians or bands? To numerous to List all. Here are some past Favorites.
Rock: Jim Hendrix, U2, The Who, Joni Mitchell, YES, Emerson, Lake & Palmer, Can, Cat Stevens, King Crimson, Eon, Pink Floyd, Frank Zappa, Bad finger Brewer & Shipley, Jimmie Spheres (Isle of View), Craftwork, The Eagles, The Beatles, Gordon Lightfoot, Bob Dylan (Blood on the Tracks), Steppenwolf (Live), David Bowie, Jefferson Airplane, Grateful Dead, Carol King, Randy Newman, Chicago
Classical: Mahler, Beethoven, Bach, Messier, Debussy, Ravel, Gershwin, Barton, Inanes Demakis, Antonio Vividly, Gorgy Legate, John Dow land, Pauline Oliver�s, Brahms, Joaquin Desires, Stockhausen, John Cage, Joan Tower, Joseph Haydn, Steve Reich, George Frederic Handel, Terry Riley, Mozart, Brio, Gregorian Chant
Jazz: John Coltrane, Eric Dolphin, Miles Davis, Weather Report, Louis Armstrong, Don Cherry, Sonny Murray, Pharaoh Sanders, Charles Minus, Sun Ra & Many More

What are 5 albums you can't live without?
Again for a musician this question is nonsense. I can easily think of 5 LP's in Free Jazz alone not to mention the 1800 years of different eras in Classical music, or the 5 LP's from serious Electronic music; or the 5 LP's from Southern India Classical Music or Northern style Classical Indian music too. Or from Rock etc.
Can't Live without:
Rock: by Bob Dylan: Blood on the Tracks & Freewheeling Bob; by Jimmie Spheeris: Isle of View; by The Guess Who: Wheatfield Soul; by King Crimson: In the Court of the Crimson King, Starless & Bible Black & Larks' Tongues In Aspic; by Eno Another Green World, Here Come the Warm Jets; by U2: The Joshua Tree; by Jefferson Airplane: Surrealistic Pillow; by David Bowie: Heros; by Steppenwolf: Steppenwolf Live; by Led Zeppelin No.4; by Carol King: Tapestry; by Randy Newman: Sail Away & on & on.

Tell us what you're reading now.
A fun Sci-Fi Read.

What are your favorite authors or books?
TS Eliot, Mark Twain, Edgar Allan Poe, Douglas Adams, Thomas Jefferson, and many more

What types of activities interest you?
Art galleries, Astronomy, Board/Role-playing games, Card games, Computer programming, Computer/Video games, Cooking, Crafts, Cultural exploration, Dance, Design - Art/Graphic, Fitness/Exercise, Healthy living, Live Theatre, Movie watching, Museums/Exhibits, Music, News/Media, Painting, Pets/Animals, Photography, Playing music, Pottery/Ceramics, Psychology, Reading, Religion, Science, Sculpting, Shopping, TV watching, Teaching, Writing poetry, Yoga/Meditation, Writing

What do you like to do in your free time?
Work on my Art or view/listen to other peoples work. Relax with soothing music; maybe a virtual vacation DVD. Laying out at the Beach. Sitting in a Park people watching & observing wild life. Hanging out at local cafes drinking coffee & socializing.

What types of sports are you active in?
In the past Boating/Sailing, but now Camping, Fishing, Working out

What are your favorite sports/teams?
Not much into Pro sports

Dreams & Goals

What is/are your ideal BDSM relationship(s)?
Activity pals, Casual, Collared, Discreet relationship, House/Stable, Long term, Anonymous, Being loaned around, Play partners, Poly-amorous

What would be your dream house?
Large Modern Log Cabin with Loft.

What would be your dream BDSM lifestyle living arrangements?
24/7 Fem Domme Partner wife. Plus, both of us members within a Fem Domme community and for her to share me or offer me for servitude or for play as she pleases in the communities service and for events and possibly to loan me out now and then to other Femdomme Friends as she chooses.

What's your dream job?
Pretty much what I have now and doing currently.

Where would you like to live?
Beach Front, Mountains, Large Lake, Islands, Paris, France, Vienna, Austria, Mediterranean, Gulf Coast, Caribbean, Kansas City, South Seas, Ski Resort in Colorado, Europe

What's your dream vacation/getaway?
Realistically right now: Fishing for an afternoon at a local lake, A week of Camping at Tuttle Creek Lake, Ski Resort in Colorado.� Unrealistic right now: Sea coast Beaches, Mountains, Islands, Paris, France, Vienna, Austria, Mediterranean, Gulf Coast, Caribbean, Kansas City, South Seas, Europe

If you could do anything what would it be?
What I am doing now!

How do you handle set backs to your dreams?
Keep Going.

How important is it to share the same dreams as your partners?
Depends on age and phase within each partners life path; what is appropriate and relevant in terms of sharing Dreams in ones 20's is not necessarily the same for partners who one or both have ages in their 40's to 60's. More to the point are having supportive and constructive characteristics in how one treats each other including how one treats and assists in each other�s dreams. Regardless of how similar or different they may be.

Tell us about some dreams & goals you recently realized!
Living in a really cool Loft space is a realization of 1 of my dreams that I had in my young 20's for an ideal dwelling. Having obtained a grant to aid me in setting up an independent web business plus financing my setting up my home Office & Studio.

What actor/actress might play you in the movie of your life?
Ronald Coleman

Where do you see yourself in a few years?
Better acquainted with the local BDSM scene with more acquaintances and friendships established in the area too. Active in Femdomme Society events. A thriving web business with little work or time involved in its operation. Plenty of free time to go fishing work on my Art & Music. Credit debt all paid off & some real savings in the bank. Enough spare income to really take a dream vacation.

BDSM Fundamentals

The term BDSM covers a lot of ground. What's your scene?
I do crave servitude to a Fem Domme's will; and to follow her wishes, her whims and her desires. To fulfill What she chooses for me solely for the gratification of her desires, fantasies and amusement. I want to regularly participate in such a relationship. Also, I would be turned on in being passed around or loaned out by her to her Friends anonymously and used by them too. Plus, I hope to eventually meet with others interested/involved in this lifestyle locally. Over time I hope to make new acquaintances and eventually make friends with some of the Lady's visiting and/or living in the Kansas City area.

How do you identify?
I'm a submissive/sub

If asked, how would you explain your slave role to a novice?
I am to serve and worship my Mistress. To cherish each touch and moment that I may encounter with my Mistress. My eyes are downward cast, I have no choice but to respect and obey the wishes of my Mistress. I am and will always be a total and complete slave to my Mistress...and disciplined when needful. It is both an honor and privilege for me to be used in any capacity by any Femdomme. It is both a desire and sexual need within me to exist in utter servitude, abasement and humiliation under the command of Femdommes.

How big of a role does BDSM play in your life?
For me it is like asking how big a role does one sexuality play in ones life. For me it is a big role. BDSM is for me an integral aspect of my sexuality. The consequences to me are that I really become painfully crippled within when only living a 'regular' life without this inner aspect of my self being fulfilled and satisfied. Although my craving for servitude under Femdommes may have its origins within my sexuality, I do understand that much of my service or use by Femdommes may have little to do with any kind of overt sexual gratification for me. It is the being in servitude under Femdommes that excites my sexual arousal; and self-gratification in itself is not the main point except in how it may please or pleasure a Femdomme. So for me to have a full and satisfied sexual life and fulfilled sexuality I need to serve a Femdomme and in her abasement of me, in her humiliation of me and in her using me however she pleases I find a sexual fulfillment.

How many years of experience do you have?
Roughly 28 very lean years. My first experience was an Old flame of mine back in 1981. She and I were playing strip poker at my place and I was losing. After the clothes were gone the rule was that we had to do whatever the other required. She wanted me to wear a black satin slip and then make love to her in it. The experience was very arousing; later she bought a black teddy that she also ordered me to wear when making love with her. Through the years I've done some real life sessions & experiences though they have been somewhat scattered & infrequent. I've also in the lean times continued via experimenting at home solo, So I am not a complete newbie; but my experience has been limited so much I may need to be treated as one for a while.

How "out" are you about your BDSM lifestyle?
I'm private concerning my kinks and sex life!

Tell us about your participation in the "cyber" scene versus the non-virtual ("RL") scene?
I do sometimes use the photo/video section of our site for masturbation. However, in general, I am not much involved with any virtual or cyber BDSM scene, except to use it as a vehicle to further my real life involvement in the local BDSM scene. Basically, posting my Profile and keeping it up to date at FemDomme Society and making use of our site resources there to further my education and instruction to become a more capable & appropriate submissive is my main involvement now in the online scene. I am also making use of the opportunities there for increasing my involvement in real life within the greater Femdomme community locally. I am getting to know real life members online within the Femdomme Society via various resources on line who are living locally, living around the USA and living around the world. I'm Utilizing the sites resources such as the sites Universities for subs, e-mail, the message Board, Chat & posting of upcoming events.� I prefer real BDSM sessions with non-pro Femdoms and I'd like to make some local acquaintances and friendships with women in my area within the Femdomme community. Making friends with Pro FemDommes is OK with me too, but I will not be a paying client.

How did you learn about the BDSM scene and how have you learned and developed your skills?
In a late 1970's issue of Penthouse was where I first heard about BDSM. Later a girlfriend had me wear her black slip to make love to her after I lost a strip poker game. A girl friend in early 1980's and I practiced some bondage and would switch. In the early 1990's I had one session with a Pro FemDomme in a motel, and a couple instances of being dominated in mid 1990's with a female friend. Also I developed a friendship with a life style FemDomme living in St Paul back then though we never actually got together for a session. Some e--mail friendships with a few Femdommes too. Some of my experiences with the Ladies I have known through the years in these infrequent and isolated past encounters were dressing in women's lingerie for them, Licking their boots/heels, trampling, butt plug, their using a dildo in my ass, being spanked, their slapping my cock & balls and being tied up.

How many years of experience would you like your partner to have?
It is not a major matter to me right now for the Femdomme I serve to have many years of experience in this; but some knowledge and at least a year or 2 of real experience with at least a few submissives would probably be in my best interests receiving more knowledgeable training in my submissive duties, manner and role.

What are your thoughts/experiences with introducing people to the BDSM lifestyle who have no experience with or in it?
I do not actively promote the BDSM lifestyle to others. However, if someone I knew did have this internal kink within their sexual drive along these lines and wanted to discuss this with me I'd lend an ear and if I thought I might be of help in advising them I'd offer as appropriate and relevant advise and/or answers to their questions for their situation that I was able to give to them. I might or might not disclose to them my own involvement when doing this, at least initially.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a BDSM partner?
Ability to be discreet, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Honesty and trustworthiness, Personality and how we get along outside of play, Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Emotionally & Mentally Stable, Aftercare, SAFETY (Including Safe Word), Safe, Sane, Consensual, No STDs, No recent major Mental Health issues, No major physical handicaps, Be aware and respect my needs to meet my obligations within the regular world outside of my BDSM activities, Also, occasionally, I have a bias/yen towards Femdommes who have� auburn Hair and slim figures or are of Asian, Mediterranean, Hispanic, or various mixed Caucasian types of descent. In other words, at times I have a yen for being involved with a Femdomme who is for me rather exotically attractive.

Extracurricular BDSM Activity

What other channels have you used to find out more about BDSM?
A BDSM Focused Nightclub in Minneapolis, a while back through Magazines, Some Internet sites, a few past Girl friends, a Pro FemDomme session, Dreams & Fantasy, Local BDSM Clubs/Associations

Are you involved with the BDSM Community in your area?
I am making arrangements now to meet a few of the local Femdommes living near me over coffee at a local cafe and start getting to know each other. Hopefully I'll be invited eventually to serve & participate in some upcoming & local Fem Domme Events & Gatherings.

Describe any BDSM community events you participate in or have participated in.
BDSM community in Minnesota; Meetings over coffee in local Restaurants; Chat online.

Tell us about any previous BDSM clubs or associations you belonged to and how they affected your play and life?
BDSM club monthly meetings and their Online BDSM Chat in Minnesota. I was a bit too shy and also preoccupied with rebuilding my life then (and that is another story) to actually participate very much.

Tell us about your participation in the BDSM scene outside of your local community.
Nothing much comes to mind, except getting to know Femdommes online and via e-mail

Tell us what you think about public perceptions of the BDSM scene.
Mixed at best. I have a friend who came out openly in the 1990's as far as cross-dressing. He lost his wife, his oldest and best friendship, and any continued relationship with 2 of his brothers. It was a rough time for him. Even today it can still be difficult to accurately gage how a vanilla oriented friend or even family member will react to both BDSM and male Feminization. I really am too busy with the vanilla side of my life to suddenly be faced with a plateful of new problems and issues with vanilla oriented friends and/or relatives reacting unpredictably with any such disclosures to them by myself about my BDSM orientations and this aspect of my sexuality. Also, I do not think it is always realistic or even fair to expect another who only really knows the vanilla side of life to be thrust into a necessity to expand and learn about a world that sometimes can be beyond their ability to cope with, to understand, to deal with or to mentally process. By my disclosure to them it puts them into a forced position of swim or sink into the unknown and for them BDSM might seem like very deep and possibly dangerous waters or whatever their presets might be. In this sudden revelation they are forced by my disclosure to have to expand their knowledge and understanding into this area (which they may have no inclination or desire to do at all) and my expecting or wanting their acceptance and understanding in all this may be for some far beyond their current capacity to do or to even begin to process such information from me. To hand someone what is for them a whole nest of difficult issues and problems that do not have the life experience or understanding or capacity to make sense of or to deal with seems to me a real imposition by me on them. It is somewhat akin in unfairness to requiring a child to take on the duties and obligations of a mature and able adult. So, no I don't need all the extra work on my own plate right now of having to do years of damage control with in my network of Vanilla relationships due to my disclosing to them my BDSM, cross-dressing, forced feminization, sexual orientations. I am speaking of myself in this; others may have a differing view. So currently, I do discretely maintain a separation between my Vanilla and regular life relationships and my submissive BDSM life. This is not a lack of courage or integrity on my part but wisdom and the generation I was born within. For the younger generation around today they may see this differently, but I have some old and cherished friendships that have lasted for 3 decades and reactions to such disclosures within my generation are still even among the more enlightened still rather unpredictable.

What kind of nightlife do you enjoy?
Gatherings in my home with close friends, Just lounging around the house with family/friends, Watching a good film at home. Listening to music at home. Relaxing in front of a cozy virtual fire on my TV listening to Classical music. Meditating and in reflection listening to the surf and watching the slowly changing virtual scenes of a quiet and serene beach in Hawaii or the Virgin Islands. Hanging out at a cafe or jazz club. Eventually I hope to be invited out to watch and/or participate in local BDSM club meetings, parties and events.

What's your take on BDSM/dungeon parties (private home or public club)?
I'd like to watch and Participate.

Where do you buy your props and toys?
Specialty Boutique like Fantasy Gifts (Store) originally, but now I'd do so online.

Give us the recipe or instructions for building a great play toy.
I have not been all that creative yet in this area. I have adapted a thin leather belt to use to tie up and bind my cock and balls extremely tight. I once prepared a carrot as a dildo by slicing its rough skin off, carving it into a shape to mimic a penis, oiling it and then using it as a make shift dildo to fit up my ass for a session. I have used clothespins I already had at home for nipple clamps etc.

What kind of porn movies do you enjoy the most?
BDSM Movies that include: Servant to Lesbian/Bi couple, Servitude, Multiple Femdommes using their sub, Humiliation, Domestic duties, Used as Furniture and Water-sports, Strap-ons, CBT, Blindfolds, Gags, Nipple Clamps, Whips, Paddles & Ticklers, Cuffs & Collars, Bondage Restraints, Harnesses, Chastity, Bondage, Face-sitting, Licking Feet - High Heels - Boots, Feminization of men, Forced homosexuality.
Movies with Women's Fetish Wear like: Role playing costumes like Female Teacher, Business or Schoolgirl costumes and all types of Lingerie & All types of Fetish wear & materials, Leather, Lace, Latex, Rubber, Corsets etc.

How do you enjoy your porn?
I do not make any major use of commercial porn now in my life; however I do keep a small photo collection of BDSM models in sessions. I also sometimes look over the Femmdomme societies member videos and photos, as well as, sometimes look though the free photo sessions displayed and available at the website Men in Pain. Due to my not being collared currently, there are times when I must resort to using these photos for masturbating myself to relieve the building sexual pressure within me for a kind of sexual relief that really only my servitude under a Femdomme can ever really relive.

Activities & Fetishes

Summery of Activities Enjoyed:
24/7 (Total Power Exchange); Age Play; Anal Sex; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Candle Wax; Chastity Devices; Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.; Collar and Lead/Leash; Confinement/Caging; Cross Dressing; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Domination; High Heels; Humiliation; Lace/Lingerie; Latex; Leather; Massage; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Nipples; Oral Sex; Pantyhose/Stockings; Foot Fetish; Power Exchange; High Heels or Boots; Role Playing; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Toys; Vibrators; Whips; Forced Feminization, Forced homosexuality, Teacher/Student Role play, Employer/Employee Role play, Mistress/Servant Role play, Mistress/Maid Role play, etc.

Full Fetish list Details

(All are 5 Stars Unless otherwise stated: - A Lot! is 5 Stars +)

Anal Sex
Me Giving
Me Receiving
Me Watching

Age Play
Me Playing Older
Me Playing Younger
Me Watching

24/7 (Total Power Exchange)

Blindfolds
Me Blindfolding Others - only as a servant
Me Wearing/Being Blindfolded
Me Watching

Chains
Me Chaining Others� - Only as a servant
Me Being Chained - Very much
Me Watching

Candle Wax
Me Giving - No
Me Receiving� - A Lot
Me Watching

Chastity Devices
Me Putting on Others - only as a servant
Me Wearing
Me Watching

Collar and Lead/Leash
Me Collaring/Leading - No
Me Being Collared/Led - A lot!
Me Watching - A lot!
Leashed, Led by Cock/Balls - Lots & Lots

Cross Dressing
Me Wearing - Lots
Others Doing

Cock and Ball Torture, Clamps, etc.
Me Giving - No
Me Receiving - A lot!
Me Watching

Defilement, seeing a partner dirty or wet
Me Defiling Another - 3
Me Being Defiled - 3
Me Watching - 3

Denim
Me Wearing - 2
Women wearing - 4
Women wearing in session

Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons)
Me Giving to males - 4 Femdomme Forced
Me Receiving - A Lot!
Watching

Domination
Me Giving - No
Me Receiving - A lot!
Me Watching

Ears
Me Playing With - 1
Me Being Played With - 2
Me Watching - 2

Feathers
Me Giving - 1
Me Receiving - 2
Me Watching - 3

Fisting
Me Giving - No
Me Receiving - 1
Me Watching - 1

Hair Pulling
Me Pulling - 2
Me Being Pulled - 4

Handcuffs/Shackles
Me Putting on Others - No
Me Wearing - 4
Me Watching - 4

Infantilism/Diapers
Me Wearing - 1
Others Wearing - No

Leather
Me Wearing - 4
Others Wearing A Lot!

Lace/Lingerie
Me Wearing - A Lot!
Others Wearing� - A Lot

Masks
Me Wearing - 3
Others Wearing - 2

Massage
Me Giving to Females
Me Giving to Males - 0
Me Receiving by Female - A Lot!
Me Watching (Females) - A Lot!

Masturbation
Me Doing
Me Watching Females
Me Watching Males - 2

Nipples
Me Playing With Female - A Lot!
Me Being Played With - A Lot!
Me Watching - A Lot!

Oral Sex
Me Giving� - A lot!
Me Receiving - A Lot!
Me Watching - A Lot!

Pantyhose/Stockings
Me Wearing - A Lot!
Others Wearing

Piercing
Me Having Piercing - 1
Females With...� - 4

Play Piercing
Me Giving - 0
Me Receiving - 1
Me Watching - 0

Pony Play
Me Pony for female - 4
Me Pony for male - 3 if Femdomme Forced
Male Pony for Me - 3 if Femdomme Forced

The Rack/Medieval Devices
Me Giving - 2 Only as Servant
Me Receiving - Depends on device 0 to 4
Me Watching - Depends on device 0 to 4

Retifism (Shoes or Boots)
Me Wearing� - 4
Adoring on Femdomme - A Lot!
Others Wearing - A lot!

Role Playing
Participating - A Lot!
Watching - A Lot!

Sadism
Me Giving� - No
Me Receiving - 2 (not too much pain)
Me Watching � - 3

Schoolgirl Fetish
Me Supervising Her�- A Lot!
Me Supervised by Her� - Lots & Lots!
Me Watching - A Lot!

Sex During Menstruation
Me Giving to her - 0
Me Receiving - 2
Me Watching - 0

Talking Dirty
Me Talking Dirty - 0 to 5 (inclination varies)
Me Being Talked to - A lot!

Tongue Fetish
Me Using Tongue
Me Being Tongued
Me Watching

Transvestism
Me Being �- unsure
Me Desiring Others� - No

Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine)
Me Giving - 1
Me Receiving - 2
Me Watching - 3

Riding Crop
Me Giving - 0
Me Receiving - A Lot!
Me Watching - 4

Forced Homosexual Sex by FemDomme
Me Doing another Male - 4
Me Receiving from Male - 3
Me Watching - 3

Whips/ Caning
Me Giving - 0
Me Receiving - 4
Me Watching - 4

Scenes and Play

What fetish and/or BDSM large props have you used or do you wish to bring into play?
Used: Bondage Restraints
Wish to Use: Gags, Dungeon Gear, Blindfolds, Leashes and Leads, Slings and Swings, Spreader and Truss Bars, Strap-on, Bras, Gear, Whipping post, Fetish Wear, Uniforms

What are your favorite toys/apparel/gear that you have used?
Anal Sex Toys, Dildo Sex Toys, Vibrating Sex Toys, Lotions and Lubricants, Cock and Ball Toys, Nipple Clamps, Corsets, Dresses, Women�s Footwear, Garter belts, Panties, Skirts, Slips, Gowns, Teddies, Cock Rings, Collars, Paddles, Leather belts

How do you incorporate toys into your scenes?
The Fem Domme who is using me makes use of most of these toys for my torment, domination, and humiliation. She decides what and how these toys are used on me to further her pleasure.

What types of toys are excluded from your scenes?
Any toys that I feel/think are too repellent for myself or I feel/think too dangerous or life threatening for myself. We can discuss this before hand.

What type of scene activities are you active in or fantasies that you would be interested in exploring?

One scene/fantasy of mine is being owned as a debased slut to a group of strippers and available to them for venting out any of their frustrations from dealing with men who treat them with disdain or contempt.� They could find some relief from such irritations and frustrations in using me for their personal amusements and to humiliate and debase me as their male dog, slave and personal male slut.

A similar scene/fantasy of mine is to be given to a submissive female of a Femdomme who wants her own sub male to debase and humiliate and use to amuse herself with as her personal male.

Neither of these scenes/fantasies actually speak to any contention or conflict with my need to submit to the superior female; but rather speak to my craving to be further debased and humiliated by ending up as merely a submissive females male slut used for her amusement. These fantasies speak to my being too worthless for an experienced Femdommes time, energy or pleasure. So, it is an extension of and compounding of my lowly status as an inferior male and a furthering humiliation and debasement to me by being but a male so inferior that I am not even worth keeping by the Mistress or given to another Femdomme but merely cast off by the Mistress to be used only as an amusement for a female submissive associate or acquaintance.

Another is to for a woman or women dressed in Schoolgirl Uniform skirts to debase, humiliate and use me to amuse themselves as their personal maleslut.

Another is to be passed every few days from one Femdomme to one of her Femdomme friends over the course of a few weeks. Just treated as an inferior male slave to be used to amuse each in turn as they wish to use me to suit their fantasies and whims at my expense and humiliation.

Another is much the same but within a session among a group of Femdommes meeting together to amuse themselves with me at my expense and humiliation.

Another is to be a live in slave/servant/dog to a female bi or Lesbian couple and to be caged or bound when not in use and debased and humiliated or simply played with to amuse themselves with me as their inferior male slut dog.

Another is simply doggie training and for a period of time live in a Femdomes household as her pet dog and treated as such even mimic the way a dog must pea etc.

Another is to be in a collar to and led around naked with female ankle bracelets etc. as a Femdommes sub to be in servitude to her needs, desires and tasks.

Another is to be a servant to a meeting of FemDommes.� To be dressed with very little; for an inferior male servant who is serving at a social function for FemDommes is not worth being dressed in much apparel.

What types of scene activities are OFF LIMITS to you?
Adult baby, Not into Asphyxiaphilia (Breath Play), Dacryphilia, Knife play, Needle play, Piercing

What type of roles have you played or would you be interested in exploring?
Boss/Secretary, Cop/Prisoner, Doctor/Patient, Hooker/John, Married Spouse/maid, houseboy, Master/slave, Nurse/patient, Owner/pet, Teacher/student, Anonymous use of me (like a male-slut slave in blindfold passed around from night to night to strangers to use me as they wish)

What roles are OFF LIMITS to you?
Brother/Sister (or vice versa), Priest/nun (or vice versa), Priest, Priestess/worshipper, Rapist/victim, Vampire/victim, Anything I consider too dangerous

What's the largest number of people you've been involved in a scene with?
2 (another male and a female)

Have you ever videotaped or taken pictures during a sexual encounter or scene?
I recorded a threesome of myself and another male with one female on audiotape years ago and all knew.

Describe what you experience physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually while participating in a BDSM scene.
Seeking to lose himself in the rapture of a woman�s need to fulfill herself in her desire by her discretion and by her choices in whatever direction she directs me to please her and in pleasing pleasure her in her dominance of my sex.

Tell us about your most enjoyable recent scene.
I have not had any recent scenes since the1990's.

Scene Fantasies and Preparations

What location(s) do you fantasize about for a scene?
A bed with posts, Work desk, Living room. A dungeon,

How open are you to switching?
I'm comfortable in my role, and not into switching for right now, but as my Mistress wishes of course.

Would you be interested in scenes/play with multiple partners?
Some of my most arousing fantasies have to do with being used by multiple partners. I wouldn't be opposed to bringing in a third to participate or servicing a group of FemDommes, I like one-on-one play, but I'm open to watching or being watched.

How do you prepare your home/physical self for a scene?
I use a variety of costumes and accessories, I have an excellent imagination, To get things started, small talk is a good place to start.

What's your comfort level in talking with a partner about play/scenes?
I'm somewhat comfortable explaining what I want or don't want to do.

Do you believe in using safe words/signals?
Yes, they are crucial to BDSM play.

How detailed would you like scene negotiations to be?
I'd like to discuss the basic details and let the rest flow naturally.

Where do you stand on being under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol during play?
If you need help getting into the mood sometimes, it's okay, When you know your partner well, then why not? Even though I rarely drink now I think drinking is okay as long as you're not drunk, but drugs are not.

How far do you push the extremes - how into edge play are you?
I am a firm believer in SAFE, SANE, CONSENSUAL play. Plus my eyes are sometimes bigger than my stomach too. So if I am feeling like I am in over my head due to over eagerness on my part I certainly want to make use of my safe word.

Sexual Activities

Have you ever had cyber-sex?
I only want it in person.

What toys do you enjoy using for insertion/penetration?
Butt plugs/probes, Cock ring, Dildos, Vibrators, Strap-ons, High Heel of Boot or Shoe

What food items have you used in play?
Carrots, Cucumbers, Good 'ol ice, Whipped cream

How do you play with food during sex?

As my Domme wishes.

How much enjoyment do you get from receiving oral sex?
I love oral, but not every single time

What are your thoughts on anal play?
I enjoy anal play, anal penetration and a Strap-on is a huge turn on for me too.

What's your take on fisting?

I haven't tried it, and do not think I'm open to fisting but can discuss it.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?
Ability to be discreet, Chemistry, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Honesty, Open to m�nage a trois and/or orgies, Personality, Physical attraction, A little of every factor

In Conclusion

Ladies, Thank you very much for the privilege of your time and consideration.
Also I plan to post some additional photos of myself soon that are more revealing and will be from current sessions with other members in the Femdomme Society so that the other FemDommes here can see more than what I currently have to offer for their viewing pleasure.

Sincerely,
Your obedientplaytoy

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